The Sex Talk
The Talk! ~it only to an hour to write!~
I've put very much thought into this subject and i figure safety and honesty are the important elements that need explanation.
Talking is the most important; good honest conversation that addresses desire and concern and leaves both parties in a boat they can both move forward in is the ideal place to be!
Safety is the second importantist. Condoms suck! but they are better than unexpected babies, incurable disease and all of the stress and paranoia that come with not using one!
Do not put stupid stuff in your vagina and respectively do not put your penis in stupid stuff, because stupid unexpected stuff happens. much much(exponent here) happens..
Lady's are sensitive, being slow and taking your time and... talking. is very worth the effort. Hands, kisses and cuddly grinding are the funniest thing ever should your respective boats end up going in that direction. It is a really fun and comfortable relationship that really bypasses the potentially bad stuff.
Do not push too deep or push on weird angles, there is an end there and it is called a cervix wall and it does not want a penis going through it and could very well lead to emotional complexes of sorts for both parties.
Do not force your way through a dry spot, just get out and get back in again, and repeat until you are both dripping with passion! Forcing your way through a dry spot may very well harm the wonderful muffin.
Do not bend a penis! it hurts and can cause all kinds of tissue and tendon damage! The same for, Squeezing, ramming, dropping, scratching, biting and so on, when such things do apply it is because you have both put the studying in and have learned the how and when about each other.
DO skip the whips, chains, ropes and handcuffs. it is not sexy, it is just plain F456en crazy and your respective mental integrity will surely suffer as a result.
The Third Importantist things to be said are. Never skip on the kisses and cuddles, it is everyone's favorite part! You can make up games, you can read sexy books, you can sit and study sexuality together! which is probably exactly where this should end!
<3
I've put very much thought into this subject and i figure safety and honesty are the important elements that need explanation.
Talking is the most important; good honest conversation that addresses desire and concern and leaves both parties in a boat they can both move forward in is the ideal place to be!
Safety is the second importantist. Condoms suck! but they are better than unexpected babies, incurable disease and all of the stress and paranoia that come with not using one!
Do not put stupid stuff in your vagina and respectively do not put your penis in stupid stuff, because stupid unexpected stuff happens. much much(exponent here) happens..
Lady's are sensitive, being slow and taking your time and... talking. is very worth the effort. Hands, kisses and cuddly grinding are the funniest thing ever should your respective boats end up going in that direction. It is a really fun and comfortable relationship that really bypasses the potentially bad stuff.
Do not push too deep or push on weird angles, there is an end there and it is called a cervix wall and it does not want a penis going through it and could very well lead to emotional complexes of sorts for both parties.
Do not force your way through a dry spot, just get out and get back in again, and repeat until you are both dripping with passion! Forcing your way through a dry spot may very well harm the wonderful muffin.
Do not bend a penis! it hurts and can cause all kinds of tissue and tendon damage! The same for, Squeezing, ramming, dropping, scratching, biting and so on, when such things do apply it is because you have both put the studying in and have learned the how and when about each other.
DO skip the whips, chains, ropes and handcuffs. it is not sexy, it is just plain F456en crazy and your respective mental integrity will surely suffer as a result.
The Third Importantist things to be said are. Never skip on the kisses and cuddles, it is everyone's favorite part! You can make up games, you can read sexy books, you can sit and study sexuality together! which is probably exactly where this should end!
<3
3 years ago