Rules and Guides for Sissy Life

NOTE: These are just my personal ideas and beliefs. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions!

1. A sissy is a different term than both crossdresser and transsexual. A sissy is one type of CD but not the only type (some Men crossdress for other private & heterosexual reasons). Some TSs can exhibit sissy-like behaviours, but TS is in a class of its own. Normal CDs and TSs should be respected, sissies should not (see below).

2. A sissy is a man who adopts not just a 'female' appearance and sex role but a VERY passively-sexualised and sexually-submissive version of it (ranging from wanting to be a femme sex-object for other Men's visual pleasure, to full BDSM-sex submission). He wants to go beyond being a bottom-fag to become the most submissive, least powerful form of ‘bottom’, and mostly for the pleasure of mainstream ’straight’ Men, rather than top-gays.



3. A private, bedroom sissy is a wasted sissy. A sissy needs to become a ‘public sissy’ to 100% live it out. This can be anything from a semi-anonymous internet profile and photoshoots… up to private sex meetings… right up to going out in public dressed as a sissy, inviting looks from Men and even offering Men spontaneous sex. Everybody needs to find their own level of ‘public’, but they need to do somehow to be 100%.

4. A man who chooses to become a public sissy becomes the most degraded form of female: the SLUT. He is even lower than a female slut, he is a man who gave up his priority male position to take the lowest, most degraded ’female’ position. This is 100% social and sexual humiliation for the sissified man and he needs to accept that his dignity is in the trash bin forever.



5. A sissified man needs to accept that he is now much lower in status than a masculine, real Man (aka Alpha Man), and should remember this permanent hierarchy in all attitudes, relationships and communication with real Men.

6. In my opinion, a sissy’s sexual relationships should be 100% directed to ‘straight’ real Men and not to women or other sissies, or even top-gays, though other people of course have different opinions and tastes on this issue! Again, in my opinion this is a wasted sissy, as a sissy’s feminisation and his sexual humiliation are at 100% when a she/he conducts her/himself as a feminine slut for the pleasure of straight-acting masculine Men. This is because these real Men represent the former social role he once had and has now willingly placed himself below.



7. Adopting 100% the attitude, behaviour and social role of the ‘slut’ (see below) is more important than achieving 100% feminine/passable appearance. That said, sissies should work to become as sexually attractive-looking and as femininely slutty-looking as is possible, based on what their formerly-masculine body, their resources and their available freedom allow.

8. In developing their sissy look, they should find their own style, and must look to female role models, but should also try orientate themselves to the tastes and visual desires of Men. Men should compliment sissies whose looks please Them and may tell sissies what They wish from them or expect from them (depending on how developed the Man-sissy relationship is!) but Men should also accept that a sissy might have real limitations in developing their look.


9. Since He is at the top of the hierarchy, a Man should not have to accept a sissy who has not achieved the level of femininity He requires, or the style that suits His tastes, but that does not mean He should insult unsuitable sissies for their less-satisfactory looks, instead be glad there are a growing pool of formerly-masculine men willing and trying their best to adopt the sissy role. He can politely move on and look out of other more suitable sissies.

10. Sissies have decided to be sluts, accepted their dignity is in the trash, and that they are FOREVER under real Men in status. Therefore a sissy needs to seek validation by offering the Men they encounter (online, on dates, etc.) as much sexual pleasure as the Man demands (but is reasonable to give!). This can range from providing him visual masturbation content up to being his regular sex-doll for real. Unless it is explicitly part of a BDSM arrangement, the Man should accept the sissies own boundaries and limitations at the time, in return the sissy will provide as much pleasure as s/he can within that boundary.

11. A sissy should worship the cock of the Man (and in general the cocks of all Men) as a symbol of His sexual power. A sissy displays his/her total submission and femininity by adopting an attitude that the real Man’s cock is harder, more attractive and much more powerful than his/her weak and small sissified penis (a sissy does not have a powerfully-sounding ’cock’ only a blandly-sounding penis or a ‘sissy-clit’), and is the most important sexual organ in the relationship. A sissies is defined by her/his relationship to masculine cock and her/his
primary attitude should be to pleasure and satisfy that penis, or those of all the Men present (if acting as a gangbang slut).

13. Being penetrated by real Men's cock (orally and anally) is the ultimate sign of the sissies full feminisation. S/he should seek out opportunities to be penetrated by real Men as regularly as possible. A sissy should also seek to be penetrated by a wide variety of different other Men to confirm the general breadth of her/his feminisation.



11. A feminised sissy’s only sexual organs are her/his mouth and her/his ass (aka sissy-pussy). Her/his weak and small sissified penis should play no or almost no role in sexual relations. It is to be kept small and packed away in panties or even in a chastity cage. If a Man does demand it as an act of humiliation, the sissy should masturbate his small sissy penis in front of the Man, preferably while attending to the Man’s more important penis or directly after the Man has been satisfied. It should not be touched by a Man and should NEVER be used for fucking.

12. During real dates, sissies should always take the sperm of real Men, as long as it was established before as being safe (in the opinion of the sissy and not the Man). As a minimum, a sissy must never refuse to take a facial from a Man or let him cum on her/his body or clothes. If the man is familiar (a ‘friend’ or a regular), the sissy must take the Man’s sperm in his mouth and swallow it, if the Man demands it. If the Man is familiar and can prove he is disease free, the sissy must allow the Man to cum in his sissy-pussy.


13. Taking Men’s sperm is the ultimate sign of a sissies slutty degradation. Once the safety level has been established, a sissy must take the Man’s sperm as regularly as is demanded of him (daily, weekly, monthly... depending on the Man’s needs). A sissy should try take sperm from a wide variety of different Men to confirm the irreversible depth of her/his degradation. Alongside the hardness and ‘active’-role of His large cock, sperm is a Man’s symbol of his male sexual power and a sissy is defined by her/his total submission to it. Regular intake of sperm from a wide number of Men is also said to biologically destroy any remaining traces of masculinity in a sissy.

14. Men can keep saved visual content for private use as trophies of the sissified men who offered themselves for their selfish Masculine pleasure. A Man should never expose a sissy online afterwards, unless this has been explicitly requested/authorised by the sissy. It breaks an unspoken contract of trust the sissy assumed when willingly providing the Man full sexual pleasure (sex or masturbation content). It will discourage new formerly-masculine men from adopting the sissy role and openly offering the same sexual pleasure to real Men.


15. Men should use feminine, highly-sexualised and sexually-degrading language in relation to the sissy (and sissies generally) when talking to and talking about them. This destroys remaining traces of sissy's self-esteem and slowly conditions them to be as feminised and as sexually submissive as possible. A Man can decide to use mix in feminine or masculine pronouns in this, depending on what He judges to be more humiliating.