On Sex. Some things...

1. Despite the protestations of some dear friends on here, I still maintain strongly that it is not possible to have a full body orgasm while standing up. If you’re standing, you must be maintaining control of your leg muscles, and therefore can’t be experiencing a full orgasm as this makes you lose control. My friends who are lucky enough to share my propensity for really intense orgasms agree with me on this.

2. Power sex. Several men have asked me whether I’m sub or dom. What’s the thing with this? Why do we have to attribute roles? I don’t get it. If I’m having sex with a partner I don’t see the need to play power games. Can we not both be equal lovers whose role it is to get each other off? I know most people love this stuff and maybe I’m in the minority, but it’s definitely not for me. That doesn’t mean I don’t love being “taken”; or “taking”, for that matter.

3. I’ve noticed that for many men, a photo is all they need to wank over. (I get so many nice comments on my photos - thank you!). For me, I need videos - with plenty of sound, details and nuance. I don’t look at people’s pictures, unless they’re face pics. I could never get horny over a dick pic. In fact, generally (for masturbation purposes - it’s different if I’m choosing a lover) the look of someone’s body is not at all important. It’s the strength of the orgasm that gets me off and watching how they achieve it.

4. I go through phases with visual material for masturbating to. A few years ago, when I was in a long term relationship with a woman (and having amazing sex with her) I pretty much stopped getting off on cock altogether, (which, as a self confessed man-eater, I remember really surprised me!). At that time I would scour the internet for clips of girls having insanely good orgasms - on their own or with help, watching them intently while edging my own pussy and getting ridiculously turned on before timing my orgasm precisely so I could cum with her - using her contractions to make my own stronger. I’m still very turned on by watching female orgasms (sometimes I have a whole day of edging only to girls; and do still enjoy sleeping with them sometimes too), but lately I find myself more often watching men to make myself cum. I’ve recently developed a new interest in straight men getting off on other men. I love the way so many men who are outwardly straight (usually, though not always, who have no interest in actual sex with a man) indulge in masturbation sessions and chats with other men on here, and tell me about it. I love to hear these stories and, even better, see videos of their mutual masturbation sessions. I look forward to enjoying this in a real life sense when I partake in the MMF threesome and masturbation group I have planned. Very hot stuff.

5. I still get frustrated by how few videos there are of people (of either sex) cumming really hard. I’m bored by average orgasms, but get so excited when I see really well built, edged, desperate ones, with moans, grunts, dirty talk, and uncontrollable body jerks/spasms. And orgasmic contractions - in women and men. Mmm, there’s nothing more hot. Please send links my way! If they make me wet and help me to cum I’ll tell you about it!

6. Don’t know why, but I get particularly turned on by watching dirty older men and older/bigger ladies. This is a weird quirk, as I wouldn’t go to bed with them, but watching them and their desperation drives me insane. The sexual mind and its idiosyncrasies fascinates me. I love hearing about other people’s weird fantasies and turn ons too! It’s great how open people are willing to be on here. Maybe it’s the anonymity and the relative safety of the internet.

7. In my profile I describe myself as sapiosexual. This is very true. While I’ll enjoy watching anyone if they’re having good orgasms I’m only interested in chatting to people of decent intellect. When you have as many strangers messaging you each day as I do on here, and need a quick means to sift the gems and filter out those not worth your time, nothing belies intellect more than the inability to spell basic words (your/you’re being the most excruciating example!). So come on all you clever bastard hard cummers! Come and chat to me. Stimulate my mind as well as my body! The rest: please do watch and enjoy my profile but understand we probably won’t become friends. X