Chastity help requested

Like in the title we are now interested in involving chastity in our relationship. Therefore we want to know more about it. If you are reading this and you are willing to help just write a few words. Anything that you feel can be useful to us. Information like how to get perfect cage size and your general experience. Does it hurt? Is it dangerous or safe? Really anything. Let's get the discussion going guys! 3...2...1...GO!

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6 years ago

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giannoyla 2 years ago

explore the possibility of long term tucking

Look into Bon4. Very high quality stainless chastity cages. I have a Bon4 micro. A very small cage for my not very big cock. Very adjustable. I have posted a short video if interested.

Jayboi-Ist 3 years ago

austinjames2813 4 years ago

Well it's a couple years since you asked, however, chastity device have varying designs and purposes. From just keeping the penis locked up to prevent intercourse with the unintended to inflicting pain from unprrmissed and ill advised erections. I had a very cruel domme for a while. I think I have seen a device that came from her sadistic mind. She would lock me in a very tight cage;with spikes on the inside, after allowing my penis to return to the flaccid state; with a e-stim sound inserted as far as possible. Then her brutal, cruel, torture would go one for hours. After a weekend of that I wouldn't want anything touching my dick.

85cj 5 years ago

I have the birdcage pretty comfortable and cheap. love walking around wearing it feeling it move inside my pants haven’t tried long term use only couple of hours.

cumfetishSTE 5 years ago

Chastity is great. I love morning wood in my cage. Feels like ive filled it.

curiousguy39 5 years ago

that being said, the Holy Trainer ones are great for long term wear, but i love wearing one of my heavier steel ones when i am on all fours being dildoed or pegged, i love the weight of it swinging back and forth in time to her thrusts

curiousguy39 5 years ago

i have been locked now for 16 months, 24/7 (apart from supervised cleaning time) and in that time have only been allowed out to cum a total of 9 times. Most days I have to go down on my gf for her orgasm though i dont get mine. I have to say the frustration of being sexually active in pleasing her but not being able to do anything myself actually gets into your head!.i am allowed as much anal play as i like, though i cannot orgasm through anal alone (think that is why it is allowed) so i do have some pleasure. I have a collection of about 12 cages now (most on my profile and a friends only galllery of some of them worn) so far i have managed well with the ones you find on amazon at 30 quid, have a couple of faves, but for longer term wear, go for a Holy Trainer style

servetta 6 years ago

I nave modified cb6000s in XS and anoter steel ring more confortable
https://it.m.xhamster.com/photos/gallery/2228186/176356210

I'm starting to explore this with my partner she's the Dominant one of course, we did a trial for a few days to see how things would go and I found I had a lot of chaffing when I was at the gym and it was very uncomfortable and I had this fear ppl could see a bulge in my gym shorts, do you have any suggestions for a good device that works well for guys who are a little larger and active physically?

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I'm also exploring this with my partner and she had me locked up for a few days as a trial, I found it's somewhat comfortable when you're not moving around too much. The CB600 wasn't a bad model but at the gym I had felt a lot of pinching due to chaffing and such so maybe you need to keep vasoline on his cock if he's gonna go workout or perform a lot of activities. That's all I can think of so far.

submale34 6 years ago

Lots of good advice but the important bit is definitely, the tighter the fit the more comfortable it is. The ring around the scrotum has to be tight enough so he can't slip out but watch for signs of chafing long term. Supervise his showers so he can give everything a really good clean. Nocturnal pain is common at the beginning so don't worry about that; he'll soon get used to it. I'd also advise to keep everything very trim and check for infected follicles and finally of course, keep us all posted on progress!

wernerrlp 6 years ago

Hi, first of all because of security you do not need to worry. Because he is there for sure

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Yes, in the beginning is a erectin going to hurt, but this is over time. For starters, I recommend a silicone cage that will last longer.
If you have any further questions feel free to contact me!
Greetings Werner
( Sorry my english is not the best)

kirby1339 6 years ago

I really hated the night pain on devices like cb3000, my favourite so far ist the "birdlocked". It was the only device I managed to go 2 weeks with.

seattle309 6 years ago

As everyone here stated, the cb3000 or 6000 will be an awesome one to start and to figure out what size ring to use. Keep in mind the penis tube does come in a short, standard or long. We also stepped up to a metal cage...not a custom fit one though because we only use it for short term play currently. We use coconut oil to slip everything on rather than lube. Definitely cleaner. Hope this helps and good luck.

Experiment with different types and go slowly. You have to figure out what chastity play means for you two. Go for something size appropriate, look at designs that are best for a cut and uncut cock, and start with small increments of time--do an hour, then two, an evening, then a day, then try and see if you like the idea of overnight. Make it fun and teasing. Holding the key is a massive turn on, so have fun with it. We have found so much excitement from this simple device that I'm sure you will, too. To be sure, nothing turns me on than when we're out in public and I--and everyone else-can see that key around her neck. Have fun! xo

cuckinsd 6 years ago

We started with a cb600s before getting a custom fit model from mature metal. Smaller snug fit is best. If you are planning on long term use, I suggest a metal cage. He won't need to take it off for cleaning.

mota88 6 years ago

I have a CB3000 which is very easy to use. It does take a while to find the right ring size that is tight enough so you cant take out your cock without the key but not to tight it hurt. I had some problems finding the right size that I also could sleep with. I did not find the right size as i couldnt sleep and would wake up in the middel of the night with pain in my penis.

dafoc 6 years ago

Don't give up if the first cage you try doesn't work out. It may take a few. It would help if you get one where you can mix and match different ring sizes and cage lengths and diameters. (You can always keep a too small one as a punishment cage.)

lupaba 6 years ago

bardzo dobra decyzja

bycie zamknietym w pasie cnoty i w pupie strapon

Nie kupujcie najtanszych podrobek z allegro, bo maja ostre krawedze itp, lepiej metalowy albo holy trainer 2

alleicisse 6 years ago

my suggestion would be, measure his flacid cock. You want a cage that fits his flacid size or just a fraction small... room to grow can actually be very uncomfortable when you go over night. I'd suggest a CB6000 or CB6000s as a first cage, cheap and come with lots of different ring sizes and spacers so you can find the best fit. Don't go silicon unless a cage has bottom and top attachments.. they bend to much.

Once you have the cage, start wearing it, slowly lengthening the periods... the first overnight will be a big challenge. It's normal for the body to get 'morning wood'. You get used to it, but for some it never goes away, so expect early morning wake ups

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Once you've got used to wearing it... try going out in it... some tease play... tie him down, get naked over him... fake a blow job... rub a vibrator against the cage etc.

Enjoy, remember to keep everything clean... plastic cages to smell quickly sadly lol. For the lady, holding the key will be a huge power rush... for him... well, you've just signed your cock over to her... enjoy the snug cage and focusing on her enjoyment first

Dont buy cheap crap beacause it can give some damaga to clit:)

sissyprincessElla 6 years ago

go cheapish to start with as you can buy cages with multiple ring sizes, and go off the size when flaccid not hard for cage length and size, took me couple cages to find perfect one