Basic Rules for Good Orderly Discipline

I have three basic rules:
1. Tell Me everything-- the good, the bad, the ugly. I want to know how to reward, and punish so I must know the desires and fears to provide direction. This is also how I am able to keep tabs on issues that may turn into severe problems. I have to know about things to properly address them.

2. Respect Me at every junction - Ask permission for everything knowing just because you ask does not mean it will be granted. However, failure to ask permission is a quick route to disappointment and worse.

3. Obedience is essential -- Follow My direction no matter how arbitrary or unfair it seems. Remember I am leading this enterprise and that means I am charged with the responsibility of looking out for the iceberg in the distance. I may not see everything but standing on you I see more. Therefore, it is obedience that will allow for a steady course and better outcome.

Published by Mzprudencejuris

8 years ago

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Lady_Vlada 2 years ago

very well said

Mzprudencejuris Publisher 4 years ago

to Helen59 : Oh that is just the best.... the fear running through a slave body when there is no idea what is to come, but sure it won't be good for someone.

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Mzprudencejuris Publisher 4 years ago

to cambriakid : There must be a "proper pairing" or no relationship/connection will work. The "real" reward for sub https://xhamster.com/users/hammer64, was always being allowed to serve. That is what the boy needed/craved/desired.

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to Helen59 : Big smile here. Or is it a grimace. At least he knows that it will please and amuse you.

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Helen59 4 years ago

to cbtluvr2009 : Ha. Sometimes My words make My husband shake ...... for he knows he will not enjoy what is to come.

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to Helen59 : your words always excite me

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to Helen59 : I envy your husband - he is so fortunate to be with you. Also, I think you are fortunate to have connected with your husband and you two are a great match

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Helen59 4 years ago

to cbtluvr2009 : I try ......for My husband. he is the focus of My attention.

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to Helen59 : Your words prove that you are a special lady.

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to cambriakid : I once was collared to a wonderful lady and after a few months our "play" time decreased to mostly non-existent. At home a few nights a week she would zap me with the electric fly swatter - we'd go to BDSM parties and she would play with other guys but not me. After several parties I begged her to play with me. Not very submissive of me I know, but I believe that all relationships involve give and take in meeting each others needs. So I ended up leaving it - that was about 15 years ago. Now days I visit various Pro-Dommes and they grant me the privilege of being there for THEIR AMUSEMENT. We both get our needs met.

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Seems reasonable

cambriakid 5 years ago

What are your "real" rewards? The ones that make him WANT to continue on? I know it sounds good to say that he gets the pleasure of being in your service but that doesn't sound like the kind of thing that really works in the long run. Can you tell when you need to do something because your sub reaches a point of ambivalence? I am only asking because I wonder how these relationships can be sustained over long periods of time. Do you believe ALL men should be submissive? Or should it just be when couples find the proper pairing?

12natsur 5 years ago

I agree with all your rules Mistress, I will obey every instruction...

lowdownmat 5 years ago

to Helen59 : very good advise for all us males Madam!

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reolds 6 years ago

yes I understand mistress

these should be the rules of any relationship Mistress PrudenceJuris

Slave795 7 years ago

Agree with this very much Mistress

sextudent 8 years ago

to Helen59 : I am sure that the submissive male will not take the wrong way with such strict management.

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hairfree 8 years ago

Your rules are great, i would obey you what ever you said

stephy27 8 years ago

I agree with your rules

Helen59 8 years ago

Oh, wonderful. If he obeys your instructions, well, he'll be whipped but maybe, just maybe, not punished as often and when you have to punish him, make him really sting and only finish when you are satisfied he has learned his lesson.
males are weakies, they try to apologise thinking you will forgive them and thereby escape punishment. No, no, no. Punish them until YOU are satisfied. It works, I know ..... and what fun! for you anyway. Don't damage the goods, just hurt it plenty. It seems to work for me.

Love this! Your blogs are so well written, Ms Prudence!

I wonder how it's like to obey and worship a mistress without any reserve.....

Thank You Ma'am

sextudent 8 years ago

Thanks Mistress for uploading this post to your blog.

sextudent 8 years ago

Yes Mistress.

I love the iceberg sentence.

hammer64 8 years ago

these are the rules i accept and follow
not following them brings painful consequences for the pleasure of Miss

Helen59 8 years ago

I agree with everything you have said. That is how life applies here and applies very well W/we may say. he is only unhappy when he doesn't follow my rules .... very unhappy ..... and yes, sore too.

Mzprudencejuris Publisher 8 years ago

to slave4owner : Actually it can apply to all relationships-- work, partners, children, even the furry pets.

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slave4owner 8 years ago

Communicate, respect, obey. Really they apply to vanilla relationships, also.