Chastity Device (Cages): Orgasm control and more.
The relationship I have with My sub is not romantic and I do not expect to have all My needs met by one partner especially since the One I love, not My sub, lives so far away. I think it is ridiculous to impose the restriction of singular sexual loyalty on someone else. I require My sub to wear a cage not as a way to keep him loyal/honest, but as a way to keep him focused on his service to me. It is purely a signal to the sub that I, the Mistress, am in control and have the power to impose My will. If the sub attempts to remove the cage prior to My direction, or in a situation sub desires release and does so without My permission, I turn My back on that sub. Only in extremely, very, very, very, very, very rare situation that once I withdraw My favor from them I will even consider extending it again.
As a way to allow the sub to prepare his mind for the submission I have him write the answers to a series of questions. Next I require the sub to write a formal request for consideration of submission including 24/7 chastity. Once after these are performed to My satisfaction (if they are not up to par the sub is required to make corrections/changes and resubmit the documents for My review/approval) the sub is required to wear his cock and balls bound in string as a preliminary stage of the long-term chastity. I require My sub demonstrate to Me he recognizes My domination and willingly seeks opportunities to serve Me eagerly and with a high degree of enthusiasm. As implied above chastity is a physical AND mental exploration-- both aspects must be open to the process otherwise there is no actual submission and the service borders on worthlessness.
As a way to allow the sub to prepare his mind for the submission I have him write the answers to a series of questions. Next I require the sub to write a formal request for consideration of submission including 24/7 chastity. Once after these are performed to My satisfaction (if they are not up to par the sub is required to make corrections/changes and resubmit the documents for My review/approval) the sub is required to wear his cock and balls bound in string as a preliminary stage of the long-term chastity. I require My sub demonstrate to Me he recognizes My domination and willingly seeks opportunities to serve Me eagerly and with a high degree of enthusiasm. As implied above chastity is a physical AND mental exploration-- both aspects must be open to the process otherwise there is no actual submission and the service borders on worthlessness.
9 years ago
Today is full time. It will be a year at the end of March that I wear a cage permanently. My wife uses different models of cages because they each have the faults and their qualities. Some are only portable for a few hours, others a few days, but others are bearable for several weeks.
By regularly changing the cage, my wife manages to keep me in chastity for a long time. She has imposed cages on me 24/24 and 7/7 for almost a year.
For a year no masturbation has been possible for me on my part and no masturbations allowed on his part with his own hands. For the past year, she has been adamant! My testicles are very large and swollen! Of course, she has not given me any fellatio either for even longer!
She hasn't let me introduce my little dick inside her for a very long time. It will be two years on April 22, 2020. It is the date of my birthday and she had let me relieve myself in her on April 22, 2018 ...
She judged me so lousy on this occasion that since she refuses any penetration on my part.
Today she has a lover who gives her all the pleasure she desires. For me and at my age, I know it's over now for a sex life like a normal man, a real male! My wife affirmed, swore to me that now that she has a lover who gives her pleasure, she will never yield her body, her pussy to my little soft cock !!
However, she accepts my fingers and my tongue every morning when I wake up so that the day starts well for her.
It is now my only sexual activity that she allows me. It also allows me to surf xhamster and watch everything that excites me! This game amuses her a lot because she knows that I cannot masturbate when I watch videos and photos or that I chat with other women or men. This situation excites her enormously and I know that she tells all this to her lover and that they laugh together about me and my frustration ...
Here is a small summary of my husband's life submitted to his wife. I admit that your profile excites and pleases me and becoming your friend would be an honor for me. Receiving your list of questions to find out if I am worthy of becoming your submissive would delight me.
It is quite clear to me that if you answer me, it is because this will be your desire. A wimp like me cannot demand anything from a woman like you and I know it and accept it willingly.
I hope I didn't bother you too much and that you will have read me until the end.
I dream of an answer from you.
I send you all my devotion ...
Thank You Mistress.
such a shame you no longer accept slaves into your service Mistress PrudenceJuris
So agree with Your thoughts Mistress
Very well said and great, intelligent reasoning. The longer male goes without orgasm, more obedient and focused on pleasing female(s) he becomes. If all women would suddenly realize this fact and use it to their advantage, I'm pretty sure we would have matriarchy as a dominant social system in most parts of the world, very soon.