It's not about the orgasm!

What is an orgasm? It's extreme pleasure. It's a climax. And it's the end!

Orgasms are wonderful, we all love them, right? Whether we get the orgasm with a partner, or all by ourselves, it's still the pinnacle of any sexual encounter.

And it's also the end. In my case, as an older guy, it's the end for a few days.

But what about foreplay? Whether by myself, with a genetic woman, or with a trans woman, I'd prefer a long session of foreplay prior to cumming. How long? Hours! I love the sensation of being hard. But after the orgasm, I'm finished. No more feeling hard. No more pleasure.

I would love to sit on a sofa with a pretty trans woman, and just make out. Long, deep, wet kisses. Touching each other over our clothes, at first. Slowly, very slowly, undressing each other. More kissing. Soft, gentle caresses. Kissing and licking her nipples, rubbing her flat chest with the palm of my hand. Kissing her neck, nibbling on her ears, then back to her mouth for some more French kissing.

Then I pull her panties down to reveal a hard cock. Lightly caressing her erection, applying a bit of lube, and then slowly rubbing her cock until it reaches its hardest. But then back to kissing her, my tongue in her mouth and hers in mine. Her cock can wait a while!

The point is, I would be hard the whole time, and being hard feels wonderful. After a couple of hours of this, maybe even more, we could both achieve our orgasms, and then lie together tenderly kissing some more. But at that point, it would be almost all over.

So the orgasm would signal the end of our encounter, but I think most of the pleasure would be taken during the hours prior to that orgasm.

That's what I mean, it's not about the orgasm. It's about the entire encounter, which pretty much ends with the orgasm.

That's why I'd rather see a lot of kissing and foreplay in a video, rather than an up-close blowjob or ass fucking.

Does all of this make sense to you?